Depression, Rage, Humiliation, Shame, Desire
These are all emotions that most people spend hundreds and even thousands of dollars trying to fix or hide from. Some go to shrinks. Some attempt to suppress their feelings with binges on food, alcohol, drugs, and even sex. And for some, the spiritual guru is the ultimate tool leading to their salvation.
I, too, have throughout my 33 years used every single one of the vices/remedies listed above to at the very least conceal my issues. Unfortunately, cupcakes, vodka, and random quotes on how to be a spiritual person have never helped. In my experience, they only lead to shame and ultimately humiliation.
No outside influence that I have found can demolish the ineradicable shell of pain that has taken up residence inside my heart and essence. I recently wrote a poem called Beauty, Hidden. It’s about how I sit and dream of writing something beautiful that will touch people on a heavenly level. However, during my poem I came to the realization that it will never happen. I am incapable of being “that” writer. As an artist, of any kind, we bring to the table our personal experiences. Those experiences not only shape us, but mold the canvases that are gifted to us. Now, I recognize where my gifts lay. The inner turmoil that has plagued me since childhood, that has manifested itself in unhealthy ways, was in reality my artistic gift. Thus, I have come to the conclusion that I will no longer fail at being something I was never meant to be in the first place.
Here, I sit, and I call to everyone who cares to read and hear my plea. Put down your needles, your half-empty bottles of poison, the cream-filled pastries, and the self-help books. Instead, pick a paint brush, a pencil, a laptop, a spray can, a chisel. Anything. Don’t hesitate to drain every lugubrious or outrageous feeling/observation into whatever canvas you can find. Don’t deny yourselves the privilege of standing before your creations, bare and hollow. Because this isn’t just a gift. It’s a calling. An obligation.